Qui, que, où or dont: find the gap
CEFR A2
What you will learn
- Distinguish subject qui from direct-object que by rebuilding the relative clause.
- Choose où for place or time and dont when the construction retrieves a de-complement or possession relationship.
The idea
You do not choose the relative by what it means, but by the hole it fills inside its own clause.
Think of the relative clause as a loose sentence with a piece missing. If what is missing is the subject, the relative is “qui” and a verb follows: “l'homme qui parle”. If what is missing is the direct object, it is “que” and another subject follows: “le livre que je lis”.
That is the whole trick, and it does not depend on whether you are talking about a person or a thing. “Qui” does not mean “who” and “que” does not mean “that”: one fills the subject hole and the other fills the object hole. Look at what comes next and you will know which.
“Où” fills the hole of a place — “la ville où je vis” — and also, which surprises people, of a moment: “le jour où je suis arrivé”. You do not use “quand” inside a relative clause.
“Dont” picks up a “de” that was inside the clause. “Je t'ai parlé de ce film” becomes “le film dont je t'ai parlé”. It works for possession too: “une maison dont les fenêtres sont bleues”.
And one thing French will not let you do: leave the relative out. The sentence always needs that word, however well it may sound in your head without it.
Relative pronouns
| fonction manquante | pronom | modèle |
|---|---|---|
| sujet | qui | la personne qui parle |
| COD | que / qu' | le livre que je lis |
| lieu / moment | où | la ville où je vis |
| complément avec de / possession | dont | le sujet dont je parle |
How it sounds
- L'homme qui parle est mon oncle.The subject of “parle” is missing, so “qui”.
- Le livre que je lis est passionnant.“Je” follows: the hole is the object, so “que”.
- Le jour où je suis arrivé, il neigeait.A moment in time is also picked up by “où”, not by “quand”.
- C'est le film dont je t'ai parlé.“Parler de” left a “de” hanging, and “dont” picks it up.

Your turn
Two or three, to check that the bit above landed.
La femme ___ habite en face est médecin.
qui — A verb with no subject follows: the hole is the subject.
Le film ___ nous avons vu hier était très long.
que — “Nous” follows and is already the subject: the object is missing.
C'est un sujet ___ tout le monde parle.
dont — “Parler de” needs “de”, and that “de” is picked up by “dont”.
When it doesn't hold
What breaks the rule, said out loud. Hiding it is what makes you feel cheated in the exam.
- “Que” elides before a vowel and “qui” never does, however many vowels follow.L'homme qui est là. Le livre qu'il lit.
- “Dont” also expresses possession, and there French does not repeat the possessive: you never say “dont ses fenêtres”.Une maison dont les fenêtres sont bleues.
What your own language pushes you to say
Wrong Le livre je lis est passionnant.
Right Le livre que je lis est passionnant.
Your mistake is not choosing the wrong one: it is leaving it out. English says “the book I read” with nothing in the middle, and French cannot do that — the word has to be there. Once you have decided to write one, the choice is easy: verb next means “qui”, subject next means “que”.
Curriculum alignment and sources
- CEFR A2 · routine tasks and simple exchanges of direct information. · Common European Framework of Reference for Languages: Companion Volume
- MCER como referencia; sin asignación estatal A2.1/A2.2 por curso. La máscara 3.º/4.º ESO del catálogo es editorial. · Real Decreto 217/2022, currículo básico de ESO
- La fuente reutilizada fija A1 al final de la secundaria de primer grado para esta materia. No se atribuye A2 a un curso italiano. · Decreto 9 dicembre 2025, n. 221 · nuove Indicazioni nazionali
Once it makes sense
Practise this: qui, que, où, dontLe, la, les, lui or leur: object and positionEn and y: replacing quantities, de, à and placesImparfait or passé composé: setting, habit and eventFuture and conditional: stems, endings and usesThe verb and its preposition: à, de or none
